A former Selfridges department store assistant took a fatal cocktail of drink and drugs after she was left haunted by an abusive ex-boyfriend, an inquest heard.
Jade Rayner, 28, was called ”fat and ugly” by her ex throughout their four year relationship.
Her mum told the inquest the ex “got in her head saying that people didn’t like her” and claimed he instilled “mental torture” in her daughter that she carried with her.
Miss Rayner developed a severe alcohol problem after being repeatedly humiliated by the unnamed man who subjected her to so much ”mental torture” with his belittling comments she gave up her university degree.
In March last year Miss Rayner was found dead at her flat in Stockport, Greater Manchester after taking a toxic level of a medication.
She had been getting help for her drinking, had began dating a loving and supportive new boyfriend and had kept a diary talking of her recovery.
The hearing was told Miss Rayner, who had a supportive family, had started working for the Kooples boutique at the Manchester department store and enrolled on a degree course at university.
But her problems started when she began dating the man in 2011.
Her mother Gaynor who works at the North West Ambulance Service told the Stockport inquest: ”When Jade started her job it brought her confidence out and she was liked by the girls who worked there.
“Then Jade got into a relationship. We didn’t realise it at the time, but that changed Jade over the four years she was with this individual.
“It was the little things that we picked up on. She started university in Manchester, but within months, she had left the course.
“But she had worked hard to get onto it. Me and her dad thought the boyfriend had something to do with it. But she denied it.
“One night at 3am, I had a call from Jade. She was very distressed. He had left her in the middle of Manchester with nothing.
“I was working for North West Ambulance Service and the dispatch allowed me to take the ambulance off the route and have her brought home.
“Jade ended that relationship. He tried a couple of times to restart it. She said no.
“He got in her head saying that people didn’t like her. He said she was fat and ugly and she confirmed that he convinced her not to do the university course.
“He told her she wouldn’t be very good. It was the mental torture that he instilled in her and she carried that with her for the rest of her short life.”
The mum continued: “Jade started to drink to give herself some confidence. The first time we were aware of it was when she would go to the gym and when she came home, she had a bottle of water, and it wasn’t water, it was alcohol.
”Sometimes I’d find an empty bottle of wine under the bed.
“Sometimes she would brush it off and she was doing it quite secretly.
“She was working for The Kooples and in her breaks, would go out and have a couple of drinks and that is how she got through the day.
”Even getting on a bus home, she would take a drink.
“In university, she was made to do a presentation, and she had a complete break down on that day.
“She started to use alcohol quite extensively. We sent her to different counsellors, but it did not get down to the depths of it.”
In 2015 Miss Rayner was given a suspended jail term for drink driving after crashing her Ford Ka whilst five times the alcohol limit as she tried to drive home during the Manchester rush hour.
At the time she confirmed to the court her ex-boyfriend had isolated her from her friends and stopped her going to college and told how he ”destroyed her confidence.”
She was taking anti-depressants for anxiety and depression and said she had since started a graphic design degree at Manchester Metropolitan University and claimed she had given up drinking.
Her mother told the inquest: ”We thought going to court might have jostled something in Jade and I was terrified for her.
“But it just brushed over her and it seemed like it was not Jade it was happening to, it was somebody else.
”She did not seem to deal with it how you would think she would deal with it.
“We did things our way, by taking her money off her, by taking her bank cards off her. But then, someone at Jade’s university said this was not the right way to deal with it.
”Then we were advised by the drug and alcohol service to tell Jade that she couldn’t live at home anymore.
“Then we went back on what we said. Then we were told we shouldn’t do that anymore.
“We said: ‘If you carry on drinking, you cannot live at home,’ which was the hardest thing.
”She asked to let her come home. So we let her come home. We knew Jade before all of this, so it was hard.
“We knew the real Jade. Deep down, we believed there was something that was wrong with Jade that nobody touched on. Most people just focused on the alcohol.
“We believe that if Jade suffered from an eating disorder because of mental health issues, if Jade was self-harming, that would be dealt with.
“But because it was alcohol, people just dealt with the alcohol or tried to.”
She added: “It was her way of blocking things out. We always said, ‘Somebody is going to find you dead in the park’ but speaking to Jade, I knew she did not want to die.”
The hearing was told Miss Rayner began suffering seizures, was classed as epileptic and sent into rehab but she would accidentally injure herself whilst under the influence of alcohol and once scalded herself with hot soup after she fell asleep with a bowl in her lap.
She later told police she had been raped but refused to pursue it and it was claimed she got into a relationship with a paramedic who treated her.
She was admitted to rehab again and met a new boyfriend and the couple were said to be planning a future together.
She was found dead in bed at her home by a carer assigned to help her.
A pathologist said the cause of death was the toxic effects of a prescription medication.
Police found empty bottles at the flat plus prescription medication. Her diary was also seized but it referred to her rehabilitation.
The hearing continues.